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PHOTOBOMBING: THE PENIS EDITION

It has been brought to my attention, as a newly single gal, that a surprising new trend has developed in the dating word since I was last on the market.  I should say that I’ve had many years of...

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The Bachelor Recap from a Dude

Every Monday night I need both of my boys asleep by 8pm. I eat my dinner on my lap, and I have a pint of coke with ice in it. After a day of targets and sales pressures, this is my escape. I tell my...

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Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater

Last year, at the end of Mad Men‘s season 5, we were given reason to speculate about Don Draper’s ability to change his philandering ways. “Are you alone?” asks a woman at the bar where Don sits. He...

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Sex Play Book Club: Learn Some Good Moves in the Bedroom

Friday May 3: Fantasies. Jo Hemming’s Sex Play lists the top five fantasies both men and women have. Can you see yours listed?...

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How Letting Go of the ‘Perfect Life’ Changed My Life

In a moment, my view of the world and its expectations of me changed. As a teen someone said to me, “You cry at the drop of a needle”. I promised myself right then and there that I would stop being...

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Why DID I Get Married?

Marriage. That elusive thing. That social standard. That female social standard. Marriage. I never wanted to get married. In fact, when I was a little girl, I never had this big dream of being a bride....

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Is It Settling Or Compromising?

I’d known of Jake for years. We were from the same town, belonged to the same Temple and knew the same people. But it wasn’t until we wound up in the same law school that I actually met him. We became...

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The Naked Truth: Finding Strength and Love in Vulnerability

There I stood for the first time in my life, completely, utterly, emotionally naked, in front of a man who rejected me. I had met a man only a month prior. We immediately connected. We talked for hours...

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Lingerie, Yay or Nay?

From my experience, which is far too vast, fancy lingerie is a waste of time and money. In other words, it is totally unnecessary. Every single time I have worn fancy lingerie, or any lingerie for that...

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Asking Men: Yes or No to Lingerie?

Guys, do you dig lingerie on your lady? If yes, what kind do you like? If no, tell us more Tell us what you really think The name you'd like to use Speak freely....   cforms contact form by...

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Dating Masochism: Don’t Stay Friends with the Ex Who Broke Your Heart

Don’t do it. Why would you? Trying to stay friends with an ex who broke your heart is the definition of crazy. Sure, we live in this super evolved time where the dating is modern and everyone social...

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Dating: What Has Happened To Men?

I’ve dated. I’ve dated a lot. I’ve dated men who are older. Men who are younger. Tall men. Short men. Bald men. Curley haired men. Men of all races, ethnicities and religions. I’ve never been one of...

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Men Don’t Have The Constraints We Do

It was such a cold day in Paris. People walked with quick paces while averting eye contact with strangers on crowded sidewalks. I had just gotten out of the metro Odeon. I had gone shopping at my...

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Sex: Am I lazy in bed?

An interesting thing happened to me the other night. I have been sleeping with this guy for months, maybe even a year. He always comes back for me, tries to see me, calls and texts, complains and pouts...

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Wedding Fever: Do You Have It?

Wedding Fever usually strikes in females in their mid-twenties to early thirties. It is highly contagious, and can spread through a social circle like the common cold at a preschool. Even the...

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For The Sake of Getting Laid

I can’t have sex without a connection. True story. It has dawned on me, within the past few years, that is just isn’t something that’s going to happen for me. I need a semblance of a relationship,...

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Sex and Dating: 2014 Dating Resolutions You Must Consider

One of the most common complaints I hear from my girlfriends is how much they hate going out on dates.  The men they meet – if they even bother to meet them – are all wrong.  So just in time for the...

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Love and Dating: What I Need To Be Happy in a Relationship

“They constantly told me that my first love would be a handsome boy who’d save me or a pretty girl who’d hold me. So I searched the world for another, never knowing that my first love should have been...

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Love and Relationships: I Couldn’t Stay in a Loveless Marriage

I am 32 but people tell me I look 18 or 20. Does that mean time is on my side? No, this piece is not about how kind time has been to my face. On the contrary, people tell me I need to ‘loosen up’, I...

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